the two chief male disiples of Buddha were Sariputta and Maudgalyayana
when sariputta died , Sariputta's assistant, Cunda, gave the news to Ananda, Ananda was very distressed. He passed the news along to the Buddha, who remained at peace, and chastised Ananda's reaction
Buddha said -But, Ananda, haven't I already taught you the state of growing indifferent with regard to all things dear & appealing, the state of becoming separate, the state of becoming otherwise? What else is there to expect? It's impossible that one could forbid anything born, existent, fabricated, & subject to disintegration from disintegrating
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this is enlightenment
a state devoid of everything you cherish as a human , no anger , no lust , no love and no compassion , a total state of nothingess
an absolute state , nothing more and nothing less