Certainly.

But this is a double edge.

Part of me doesn't want to need what other people think. I'd like to be able to see such in myself. However, wonderful people like many of you here have had to help me. And in that way I'm glad that some here would see me as "a good man."

Also, I find that this can be problematic. What if people don't have the scruples to discern if one is a good man or not? What if they commonly mistake a good man for a bad man? Then should I rely on wanting people to think I'm a good man?

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