It is never a good idea to take things personally and to heart... I really feel that offense should be reserved in the case of this individual. He is obviously dealing with a tremendous amount of internal-conflict and it is difficult for anyone to pour out their heart and soul. He is putting himself at the mercy of our bias and for this I have a tremendous amount of respect.

regret and hope, you are glowing with sincerity. I can see that the conflict you face is heavily steeped in compassion and worry for others. Please do not dull your sense of consideration and your willingness to speak out.

As for your abilities to write in English, I wish I could speak (let alone write) my second language (French) as well as you do! Kudos. 8)

This all being said; I have a very contrasting opinion concerning this entire issue. Let's leave it at that