Well put AKL. There is a certain standard I think we need to keep, everyone though is guilty of being wrong, heated, ignorant, or biased at least sometimes.

We need to respect that we grow at our own paces, in directions of our own choosing and there is no need to attempt to force someone to see our points from our perspective.

Jumping into a debate saying things like you are wrong, this is the most idiotic thing Ive ever heard, you are insane, yada yada is no way to conduct ourselves.

You cannot simply wave fact or science in the face of philosophy or religion, they are totally different realms of thought.