I dont think any movie or videogame can be considered "real" violent.

Because its all fake.

Theres a differnce in emulating and actual violence.

Just like animals and humans play fighting for fun.

We are predatory. We dont have any real violence in our lives (at least in most first world countries)

We arent the only one that are violent for "fun"

Many animals including dolphins show violent behaviour without any use.

Killing prey /enemies for fun only.

We do it too. But mostly fake nowadays which is good.

Just imagine going out and recreating games like Postal for real.