Intention is important.  The answers or insights are usually unexpected with DMT. I think it presents in a very unique way as compared with some other psychedelics. Soul retrieval, searching for lost things, uncovering answers to deep questions, peeling layers of ego and exploring consciousness can all be understood in a whole new light.  Like setting out to sea it is good to have a rudder and sail. The intention guides understanding and learning.

For me personally, the answers and insights were not immediately recognized or understood. I had to think about some of my DMT experiences for years before I could make heads or tails out of it. I still am quite dumbfounded when it comes to the crazy absurd wisdom that DMT shows. Integrating can be difficult and takes time with DMT.  DMT can create more questions than answers sometimes.  It becomes Socratic... why? and why? again and repeat until we come to some inner truth.

What should you do about Sally? It may just show you that Sally and you are multi-dimensional beings of light choosing to have a human experience and have known each other for countless lifetimes and now come together once again.  Dating, marriage, kids, on to old age dying in each others arms, melting into one consciousness, smiling and then choosing to find each other all over again.