Welcome to the Nexus!

I think you're right about these substances being no enlightening pills but possible useful tools.  I wish you and your fiancee good luck with your future experiences. What dosage are you thinking of caapi? What will you use as dmt-containing admixture?  I suggest first taking caapi by itself till you find the point where you feel effects but arent overwhelmingly dizzy or something, and then add the admixture slowly next times

What about dmt, any extraction planned for that? If so, what tek?

See ya!