Ok guys, tx for the answers. There's still a question that remains. How make sure someone else has a peacefull trip, while I don't want to hide that my last 3 experiences were really frightfull. The first 15 or so were wonderfull. (i didn't exagerate this was in a timespan of almost a year). But now I'm not sure if I can initiate someone because i fear to infect her with my fright. I however had this feeling that the like-death experiences doesn't come immediately. Can people tell me if in general the first experience is always one of love and spiritual enlightenment, because this was the way i felt it and how it mostly was for the people that i introduced to this magical world. If most people felt it was like this I can let her go with no fear that she might have a harsh experience. Me myself I feel that I can only go back when the time is there, so not because i need to test the water a few more times before I let her swim.

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