tijana said:
Maybe I can perform a reality check by doing something I do all the time anyway, like looking at my phone.
So I naturally do it anyway. And then asking myself am I dreaming while doing it.
What do you think? Or it has to be something I picked especially for doing the reality check?
Is it enough asking whether I am dreaming, or I need to kind of really question myself deeple every time I do it?
What you describe sounds amazing, too bad they only last for few minutes. Did you try to make them longer?
What is the weirdest thing that happened to you while lucid dreaming?
Hmm. It makes sense that you should be able to use your phone to tell, but I'm not so sure. I often associate things with symbols in my mind and a phone does so many things I don't know if it is as "potent" as symbol as a standard clock. Make sure to check the time and just think "does that make sense?". It will more likely be nonsense rather than a random time.
Another method also occurred to me that has been super successful to snap me in to lucidity. That is simply asking "how did i get here". This works REALLY well, because you can absolutely never remember how you got where you are when you actually stop to think about it. This again seems like one of those things you wouldn't naturally ask yourself in a dream but I suppose it just has to be desired and on your mind a bit and then it will eventually happen. It doesn't take more than a quick surface glance over at the concept, no deep mentation required. I can rarely even remember how I got in to the room I am, let alone the building. Just thinking about where I parked my car has worked a few times.
Back when I was really actively trying to promote them they lasted longer than a few minutes. It is always difficult to tell how long your dreams actually are (though interestingly I've been reading there has been data obtained that say we dream through all stages of sleep, not only REM). Well it is much easier to remember how long you've been dreaming if you're lucid I think since usually there is a progressive transition instead of you just kind of popping out of one environment into another and not really noticing.
The weirdest thing eh. Tricky. I remember being really confused by this one. I was stuck in a dark, wet cave full of moist stalagmites and dripping stalactites. I gained lucidity, somehow, I don't really remember how. The whole dream had this dark emotional overtone. Regardless I ended up summoning a lady friend of mine who I was very close friends with who had been going through some various difficult issues. So I guess I had a lot of... weird emotional baggage attached or something. I only stayed lucid a short while, mostly wandering about having (strange) conversations with her. Well I lost lucidity and the dream became almost like a monster movie. I was running from something or other through the dimly lit caves, splashing through puddles of water and such. Of course I couldn't run as fast as I thought I should and all that. Woke myself up in one of those tense, struggling with all I got to run but have sticky feet type situations.
It was the third or fourth thought after waking up that made me realize
I had been a woman. I had noooooo idea where to start deciphering this one, and I was a little timid to look up a Freudian psychologist's interpretation, as I'm sure I could find on the internet for my specific situation. I had been a woman during lucidity too because I remember looking down, seeing my breasts, looking past them and seeing a puddle on the cave floor reflecting the underside of my breasts (with a tight fitting shirt on). And then I just kind of gave them a little squeeze to see how it would feel. Strange. So I may have summoned this gender out myself or it may have just been a part when I became lucid. I'm not really sure. It seemed oddly to have little to do with the content of the dream. It was just an added sort of interesting thing -- wasn't particularly consequential to any single part of the dream.
This is all making me interested again. I'm going to have to start actively trying some more and see where I can get.