Of course I had to read your intro after your post in mine. And even if I'm four years younger, and my daughter is still far from being a teenager, I can afford to lock myself up and dive within since in my case I only get to spend a few days every month with her. But I'm lucky to have a mate now whose curiosity challenges mine at every level, and we barely started discovering the joy of mutual sitting.

I think it's great to be able to look at life from both sides. It's not that important whether we took the years and life events we needed for ripening, or we just swam with the current. In any case, we are here - and I don't know in your case, but in mine everything makes more sense than it ever did before.

I still get nice things from pot, and sadly there's no burning man in my country, but I can easily relate to where you are. And no DMT yet either... but next wednesday I'm most definitely breaking through for good with salvia, and the anticipation reminds me of my last days as a virgin. As long as the outcome is less awkward than first sex was, all will be good.

So kudos to you, I hope you learn and grow a lot here, and I look forward to see you around.