I know what you're talking about, although I feel like at some point, once you're aware enough of this energy, it may not matter if you ejaculate, or at least don't do it all the time. And this is because you can put certain intent behind that release, such as intending to release frustration, of fear of the sexual energy itself if your mind becomes overwhelmed by it, like mine sometimes did, or I guess it still could in the future. So I feel like you can basically use intent to release excess energy, while retaining the enlightening sexual energy.

Anyway this is a facinating thread, and I can't wait to see what kind of thoughts what I just wrote generate.