One thing that can possibly prevent one to misconstrue the intent of your message in the future might be to always keep in mind that you simply cannot offer an end-all-to-be-all path to 'victory' in anyones life. You can only hope that one is able to take something out of what you say and be able to use it to find their own so-called path to where they want to end up. End up really isn't the right term... maybe where they want to BE is better... yes...

Did you happen to have a problem trying to get minscontrue-ity into 'proper' words?? I literally sat there for about 3 minutes thinking... how the fuck am I going to use this properly... maybe it's the doj...