How is this not relevant? 

If you've never experienced something, you are only speculating. Right?  Not just with marriage but anything in life.

And your guess is close, I got married around 24, now 35.  Was not always so great, until we both stopped acting like we could continue living the same lives we did before.  we go together around 20-21 yrs, lived together for 1-1/2 yrs before getting hitched.  It's different.

And like I said before, I'm really not talking about the legal part of it at all, that is whole other ball of cats...  Even more serious!!

I'm talking about taking a commitment seriously, not just babbling out the right words & signing a legal doc.

Oh & I really don't care what Jesus would do in any situation...  Or any religion's idle for that matter.

And religion aside, what a man living 3000 years ago did about his issues has nothing to do with ours.

Alright, I don't think the two of us are gonna dance, I tip my hat to you.

WS