hey ohayoco... Yeah I've participated in some of their ceremonies, and I have a few friends who are members.. Father of a friend is one of the leaders of a particular branch of Daime.
As for jesus, nah he's not a central character as in catholicism.. Also because, notice that a huge difference is that christianism is based on one specific book, the bible, and the interpretation that their 'central agency' gives about it, as well as the sermons and preaching.. In daime, there are only hymns, but their interpretation is more individual, and there are new hymns being added by leaders as well as members all the time (though of course, to be legitimized for the whole daime they need to be accepted by the leaders, so it is controlled also, just not as much or in the same way as catholicism). The focus is more on the experience itself, which is a good thing. I really do not know if they have any official stance on homosexuality or similar questions, I will ask.
In any case, I am also very critical of daime and had several arguments with my friends who are a part of it. Of course I think each one should choose their own way, but I agree with burnt that many times (but not all times) there is a certain level of brainwashing. I disagree with the use of uniforms, for example, as IMO it creates an exophobia, sometimes with members fanatically restricting relationships and being closed in their groups, a certain unconscious feeling of superiority and so on. I also feel a shallow morality at times, judgemental behavior, etc. I dont know, though, if this is something specific to daime or if its just that the majority of people EVERYWHERE are like this, in all groups. I do know personally people there who are open minded and so on, so I know its not a rule that there is this negative aspects in members.
One last thing is about the way the ceremonies are led in general. It has a lot of light, many times its very big number of participants (I've been to 200+ people ceremonies, and there are definitely bigger ones). There are the hymns, which have words that IMO trap one's consciousness by forcing certain associations, that may not be the best for all people at all times. There are all sorts of rules that are explained metaphysically (but rather enforced as any religious dogma), such as, certain clothes color have to be used, one cant cross arms or legs, girls and guys are separate, etc.
I identify much more with either the indigenous ritual way (at least with the natives I've participated with), or the lone modern psychonaut or small groups taking care of set and setting. I dont say 'never', but I dont see myself going to daime rituals again, even though I dont regret it and feel it was great to have gone. But of course, if one feels they benefit from daime, by all means go ahead, and im happy if they can legally consume their sacrament