Does your partner share your passion for psychedelics?

[LRx]

My girlfriend of one year didn't really have too much interest in psychedelics before she started dating me, but my knowledge, and controlled usage of them eventually peaked her interest. She has been there for me on high dose IM ketamine trips, and we plan on doing some LSD together on the 9th of June. (our 1 year anniversary)

I am extracting some DMT in the weeks to come and she is interested in it. I imagine she will want to try at least a small dose!

I'm thankful she is so supportive and interested in the subject of mind altering substances, for spiritual reasons, and to find out more about ourselves.

 

[kiang]

I was the stereotypical closed-minded girl when I got with the Ex who introduced me to everything except liquor. He had been a daily weed smoker and recreational Acid/Mushroom tripper for years already and there was no way I was going to change that, so I didn't even try. I accepted him and the things he wanted to do, the drugs he wanted to take. I loved him and cared about him, and that's just what you do with people you love and care about. Three years into our relationship I became a full fledged pot head (still am) and even though I haven't traveled in a while with anything, I had a good year of experimenting almost every weekend and now one of my favorite things to do in the world is trip or have a fucking amazing roll.

While the relationship was anything but ideal or what my heart really wanted, one thing I would never change was him being my bridge to these beautiful substances. I am not supposed to be the type of person who is into them, but I let myself experiment and I had a partner who really was a decent coach and trip buddy for the most part. I wouldn't be half the woman I've become and am still turning into; it just wouldn't have happened for me any other way. I was suffering a great deal emotionally and psychologically and what these babies have done for my psyche I couldn't put a price or a regret on.

Gathering all the data on relationships and what I need/want for the next time, I've come to the conclusion that at this stage in my young life, I don't think I could be with someone who couldn't at least understand and appreciate the potential of these drugs or what they've done for me. That would be a must. They don't have to be into them, I just need understanding and compassion. Now if I can manage to land a dude who is just as into them and understands first hand how amazing the drugs can be, I think that would make me a very lucky girl

Long story longer, I am definitely open to being with men who don't share my interest or love in this department. BUT, it's a damn huge plus if they do and I think if that's something that is important to you then it should be something you can talk about. Communication is the glue

If you don't mind me asking.. what went wrong? Why did the relationship stopped?

 

[carlinesque]

Well, these sorts of things are sometimes complicated and more complex than you'd think lol! So the short version is, we just were not good for each other. There are people who come together and bring out the best in the other. They make the other want to be better. They challenge them in positive ways and help them grow as people and as partners. They use love, support, and encouragement to lift each other up and keep them sailing steady. And if they do hurt each other, they apologize and work to make the bad, good. We didn't have that between the two of us. It was a relationship that shouldn't have gone past the "getting to know you" stage. It did though, went waaaaaaay past it and there was some good that came out of it. More than I probably realize still. I also know for a fact though that there was a LOT of unnecessary pain we put the other through, and even though you can learn from pain it was just not necessary and not how you want to be with someone you love. So it had to end.

I didn't mind you asking that at all =] Hope that answered your question.

 

[Nathanial.Dread]

I've never spoken to my girlfriend about it, but I think she thinks I'm a little bit crazy. She got to know me in my harder drug using days, when I was doing things that were really damaging, and I think she still worries about that.

However, I remember after a really memorable mushroom trip, I was sitting with her, babbling about how I saw God and how my perspective had completely shifted, and I couldn't help but notice that she had this big smile on her face. I asked what was so funny and she said: "nothing's funny. It's just that I've never seen you this passionate about anything before, ever. It's nice."

She's weaning herself off of a pretty high dose of the SSRI Zoloft and has made noises like she might be interested in trying some mushrooms in a controlled dose and reasonable setting once she's really off of it.

My ex-girlfriend and current best friend (it's all very complicated and not very healthy) has said she would like to brew up some Ayahuasca, and I'm unsure if tripping with her would be a good idea, based on our histories, but at the same time, I really, REALLY want to.

 

[TMK]

Sounds like you've got an interesting situation going on in your life dread. Have fun with it man.

 

[kiang]

Thank you carlinesque for your post.

I am a hard nut when it comes to lovers. My relationships are trainwrecks, really not proper for consumption.. I'm in my 30s and never had a girlfriend, just friends with benefits, because in my mind I envision a partner that has the same interests like I have, and that obviously include the use of entheogens. So, when I meet someone, I test her for different topics. When she does interest me spiritually-wise than I intent to have a serious relation, otherwise we'll be just friends.

Some may say that sometimes having different interests at life, complement each other in many ways.. well in my particular case, I don't think so (like I said I'm a hard nut).. I consider myself spiritual and like philosofical discussions, putting everything in question and so putting, in what I believe, things in perspective.

It is really hard to find someone like that at where I live. Everyone is partial and biased. Everyone is kind of competitive consumer lifestyle, career and job-center'd, so no place for countryside walks and sustainable living.. There are the ocasional new age addepts.. but sincerely the ones I knew, where not open to "drug" use.

Because it is so hard, long lasting relationship is something I feel that might be one of the biggest experience I have to live in this existence.

It seems to me that in the end a good relationship is almost always dependent on love. But always dependent on Love.

 

[Jin]

all this relationship and sexual stuff is just too human for me and that says it all ..............thank you people

 

[DMTripper]

all this relationship and sexual stuff is just too human for me and that says it all ..............thank you people

So you're not human? What are you then? Please tell us more, I'm curious?

But by the way I don't think relationships and sexual stuff is some human stuff. I'll bet highly evolved celestial beings have deeper relationships than us humans. And definitely something related to sex. Sex can be very different from one couple to another. Sometimes it's just fuckin' , but often it's a lot more than just a physical activity. Tantric sex can for example be a very spiritual experience for those who practice that and get ahead with it.

 

[Jin]

all this relationship and sexual stuff is just too human for me and that says it all ..............thank you people

So you're not human? What are you then? Please tell us more, I'm curious?

i am truthful

and i am telling you people , just stay safe

 

[Smoothop]

this is a very interesting topic.

I have been experimenting with dmt for the last 6 months. my partner and I tried it for the first time together. she was instantly put off. an entity got quite close and pointed things out about her insecurities. needless to say she was never to return to dmt.

she used to experiment with other drugs but in the last 5 years never touched anything.
she is totally happy for me to continue my self experiments into hyperspace. she is completely put off by the smell and removes her from the room when I do it. since then I have introduced a good friend to it. we organise a trip every 2 weeks. like a dmt buddy. lol

I still feel a certain amount of guilt in still doing it while she doesn't. but I have said that if she feels its a problem for her or becoming a problem for me, to say and I will stop my experiments.

since doing dmt my life has got better. fitter. and healthier. I have stopped smoking cigarettes and exercise more. this is all down to entities telling me these are things I need to work on.

I do constantly talk to her about my visuals and keep her in the loop about what I am experiencing.

so in form my partner is please with my efforts after taking DMT.

my advice to you is communicate with her. don't hide it when you do it. and tell her when you do.

 

[Mattafizz25]

For all of you whose GF/BF thinks psychedelics are just drugs i'll share a brief story of my GF's first psychedelic experience:

So my gf and my best friend took LSA together, am not sure what dose but around 40 hbwr seeds. She was very sceptical about it. I made a simple naphtha wash and a schnapps extract so they still felt some nausea at the beginning but not much. But when it kicked in, oh boy were they high. They kept smiling and giggling and best of all they were just watching the sky and the trees nearby and they told me everything looked incredibly wonderful This lasted a few hours, at the comedown my GF had a little bit of nausea left (because of something she ate -.-)

Now she thinks psychedelics can open your eyes to the beauty of the world because even now if she lays down and just looks she can see the beauty of it all.

All in all an incredible tripp and i was very happy it went so nicely Although, it was a bit intense for her so now she is scared to try DMT but i don't mind and i dont think i'll be pushing her too much. Her decision after all...


I hope this can work out for all of you out there, because believe me it is an incredibly good feeling that i feel every time i think about this. I helped a person, my gf, see the beauty in our simple cruel world. This little trip changed them in a good way and i feel something good and warm when i think about it It's a shame other people especially adults think of these as illegal drugs to throw away life. All this would be so much better if we could openly share it with our beloved parents and other friends.

 

[Smoothop]

F It's a shame other people especially adults think of these as illegal drugs to throw away life. All this would be so much better if we could openly share it with our beloved parents and other friends.

I can just imagine my mum on dmt. she has really high blood pressure and i would love it if something herbal would help her calm down. but she is so stubborn in her ways and she take prescription medication everyday of her life and things just don't get any better she is hospitalised 4 time a year a least because of high blood pressure and it scares me that the next time could be a heart attack!!!

wouldn't the wold be great if society could see beauty threw natures gifts

 

[Herbaldreams]

I've had the same girlfriend for almost 6 years. I introduced her to LSD pretty soon after we first got together it was a powerful experience there was some crying and a lot of laughing. All in all it was a good experience that helped bring us closer. Awhile after that we started eating LSD pretty regularly, about once a week sometimes twice. I also have to agree that it led to some of the most memorable sexual experiences of my life. We also did Molly pretty regularly for a minute there.

After doing that for a couple of years my girlfriend now says she is ready to grow up and get serious (which apparently means not tripping anymore). We even quit smoking pot. Which I must admit after doing it all day everyday for about ten years it probably is a good idea to give it a rest.

I still drink ayahuasca fairly regularly. She used to drink small amounts with me but won't anymore. I respect that she doesn't want to do these things anymore and she respects that I feel regular ayahuasca drinking is good for my mental and physical health.

Still, I have very fond memories of when we did trip together and hope one day she'll come around and decide to trip with me again. It's cool if she doesn't but I definitely miss it.

 

[greencamel]

my partner does psych's on very rare occasion only small doses of LSD and mushrooms, baerly a gram, but DMT has brought us together, smoking threshold doses (nonblastoff) has really helped our communications and since we stopped smoking DMT (bad luck) we have still held together all of our lessons learned, i reccomend exploring DMT and lsd with your partner, is you can get it too, mescaline, be open