Yes a good thread it is.

I'd like to think that for not-changing, for being stagnant in the old habits, there has to be made efforts and work too, to keep it at that level. But this kind of work one has gotten so used too, automation works, but still efforts nonetheless. But this repeat-works are kind of veiled by a weird form of obviousness due copy-paste repeat patterns. I mean, if one thinks to escape "hard work" by omitting the change-game, is a false idea.

Nature loves/stimulates change. To change personality and soul vibe, maybe just stop doing the unseen maintenance works done to keep that old fortress survive. Perhaps changing requires less hard work than all those efforts to let survive the none-changed version.

Shining light, love, embrace, understanding, smile or better laugh, acceptance, etc, to the hard works done that maintain the old, is disclosing them, exposing them. I believe the ball start rolling from there in a natural way, like nature knows how to deal with it as it wants change like a universal law principle.

I believe the "change" is the way of highest opportunity, least "hard work" eventually.

So if you want to be destroyed or de-storied (good one there  ), good news: you have nature laws at your side, so mainly decrease performing those sweating practices to resist it.

This I recognize in myself too: sometimes you'd rather die than change, isn't that the biggest joke ever :lol: