I got to know some of these people too.

And I see lots of them on the internet.

Other people might think the same way about me.

But what exactly is a Loser, Running Bear?

And why do you think, are these "losing" people wanting to "come off" special and unique?

what does "come off" even mean, in a metaphysical context?

aren't you also responsible for the way that people come off at you?