Same, I feel like its been a while since you last opened this sort of more personal discussion, which I assumed it was a good thing.

Okay, I take that as not quite sinking in all the way, maybe a bit more that it used to.

Are you afraid of what could happen if you let our positive feedback in?

What does you being selfless look like? Like, what is selflessness for you?

What would you being more selfish look like?