Well... it was more because I was feeling like I was beating a dead horse and that such discourse was becoming a nuisance and obnoxious... though no one said anything to that effect. Just a feeling that cropped up.

That's not to say I'm not doing a little better. And yes I think a little more may be sinking in.

I am.

Doing a lot for others, biting my lip and not saying what I'm really thinking or want to say, not having goals that would undermine others, etc.

Selflessness for me may be a mistake. It's almost like I shouldn't take care of myself without taking care of others first.

Being more selfish I suppose would be balancing the above more

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