These are great points. I definitely want to let her have an as undisturbed first time as I can, and I'm very appreciative of silence and just feeling instead so I definitely wouldn't babble during the experience.

It's also good you bring up this notion about spirituality and dogma, that is something I would not necessarily have come to think of. I'm conflicted about the amount of preparation for a first time mushroom experience. I ended up reading so many trip reports among other things that I wish in hindsight I would have concentrated more on just harm reduction because I ended up going into my first mushroom trip with way too much expectations.  Not to say I didn't have a great experience but still.

Another thing I was thinking about is whether it is just egoistic to trip with her for her first time, because from what I've understood other people present affect the persons experience. Then again maybe that also goes for just sitters in general. She is an extremely social person, but that doesn't necessarily have to mean anything when talking about an experience like this.

Peace!