Good points, gibran2. I think "subjective experience that is objectively congruent to actual reality" is a good way of stating it, and would agree that subjective thoughts can be logically true, yet remain subjective by definition (it is, after all, the subject, not the object, that is having the thought!) I by no means meant to suggest that subjective experience is "false"; in point of fact, the subjective experience of Qualia is one of the strongest proofs to me in the existence of a non-reducible objective reality, but that is a different discussion.
I am trying to understand things in a balance between the extremes of nominalism \ solipsism (nothing is real \ nothing is real except me) and the other side of the spectrum, "we can know objective truth, and my objective truth is the correct one!". Both are categorically false, with the 2nd leading to all kinds of problems in relation to people killing each other to defend their respective understandings of "truth"; objective reality does exist, but how do we know objective reality? I think the scientific method is probably the best approach. We can't know objective truth in it's entirety, but I would like to think we can understand bits and pieces of it. This is, of course, my subjective wishes trying to impose themselves on the objective reality of being trapped in a subjective viewpoint
This is what I find appealing about philosophies of mind such as that found within Buddhism; the idea that our fundamental "mind" can exist apart from the body it dwells in, that with the dissolution of ego, we can experience reality as it is, not as we wish it be, or try to reduce it to be in an attempt to comprehend it. I don't know if this is actually possible, although there are some encouraging developments in the physics of consciousness put forth by Penrose-Hammeroff, that may give a scientific basis for such ideas - if consciousness is not an emergent phenomena, but a fundamental aspect of reality, then at least in principle, pure consciousness should be able to perceive reality as it is, by dispensing with the subject-object duality completely and simply perceiving what is ultimately itself.
Along these lines, inspired by the work of Penrose-Hammeroff, a recent paper has postulated the possibility of what is being termed "The Big Wow" - that at the moment of Creation, the Universe attained sufficient computing power to achieve awareness: a physics-based understanding of Panpsychism, assuming that the wave-function collapse theory of consciousness, aka ORCH-OR (Penrose-Hammeroff) proves to be correct, which at this stage is very much simply speculation. Check it out!