They are just dreams. I've had them since I was a small boy. They just mean I have a penis and apparently a sex drive to go along with it
I enjoy the dreams. At the time I'm dreaming I don't know I'm married. But it still bothers my wife. We cannot talk about it without her feeling uncomfortable. The dreams will not go away. My wife viewing them would be a very bad thing for our marriage. I’m sure psychologists would love this. They could make everyone get divorced and have a ton of relationship problems by letting people view each other’s dreams. It would generate a ton of new patients for them.
I would not enjoy seeing a dream where my wife is married to an ex-boyfriend of hers or anything like that. I don't want to know what goes on at that level in her mind. It's none of my business. It's her own private world and should be kept that way. I’m not married to a dream character. So why should I want to know what that dream character does in her own private dream world.
This tool will cause a lot of problems. I don’t think you guys are taking this seriously. Some people dream of killing the president, having sex with everyone, beating up their boss, and doing all sorts of other sick things that they would never ever do in real life. When people are dreaming, they are not themselves. They are a dream character, and sometimes that dream character has personal characteristics that are completely different from the waking person’s characteristics.
In dreams, I’ve done everything under the sun imaginable, from killing someone, to conquering the world, to saving peoples’ lives as a hero, pretty much everything humanly imaginable from one extreme to the next I’ve done in dreams. 90% of what I do in dreams I would never do in real life. It’s like playing a video game. You might be a soldier in a game that murders thousands of innocent lives, but when the game's over, you are not a murderer, you just played one in a game. The same is true in dreams.
You can be a villain in a dream one night, and a hero the next. They say very little about who you actually are. They are nothing more than dreams. Psychologist like to think they mean more but they don’t. If you dream of being Hitler one night and then Ghandi the next, that means nothing of your character in real life. It just means you know about history and enacted the roles in a dream, that’s all.