sounds like a huge mess what you did there.. you shouldnt start putting everything in if you cant get things out in the first place!
2l water for 500g mimosa is way too little.. the recommended amount is 1g:1g:15ml Bark:Lye:Water.. so in your case it should have been like 500g:500g:7,5 liters !!! So you see the difference, it should have been waaaay more water to begin with, thats why your layers are not separating
Mixing iso is a horrible idea, of course it wont separate, iso, like other alcohols, mixes with water, how were you thinking of separating it?! Now at least part of your dmt will refuse to come out because it will be in the iso+water layer
I would advise stop pouring things in like you are doing! Next time do it simple, use more water and lye, use less naphtha...
I dont even know what to say more.. I dont want to sound harsh but damn, man, your attitude in the extraction seem quite off! freaking out and adding more and more stuff, having problems that a quick look at the FAQ or other threads would help you solve, etc... You should do this more calm, read, if there is a problem let it stand and try to find out how to proceed, but dont go all hectic about it getting desperate and acting out of impulse
Maybe divide the mess you have in different containers, add twice as much water+lye as there is (pH 14), evap all the solvents you had mixed so far, recrystalize whatever comes out, and be more calm next time