downwardsfromzero said:
I'll share this handy note to self and others here:
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What are your positive habits, everyone?
I thoroughly enjoyed this video, it has some great messages. A good reminder to focus on what's in your control and that delayed gratification is a much sweeter nectar than immediate. I've been frequently thinking about my habits recently so seeing this was good timing. It ties in well with this book I read, Elastic Habits by Stephen Guise.
The gist of his habit formation system is that each habit has lateral and vertical options. For example if your goal is to become a writer, you would establish 3 lateral mini habits such writing 50 words, editing for 5 minutes or spending 5 minutes promoting our work. The idea is that more options will reduce the likelihood us abandoning the system due to boredom.
A vertical option is just a larger version of the mini lateral option. Guise calls the 2 additional vertical options the plus target and the elite target. So the plus options could be writing 250 words, editing for 20 minutes or doing promotional work for 20 minutes. The elite options could be writing 750 words, editing for 90 minutes, or doing promotional work for 90 minutes.
To put the system into practice we should write down our options in a grid like format and review them in the morning, committing to which option we are going to complete that day. At the end of each day we should place an X on our calendar, assuming we met one of the targets, and we should use a different color pen to represent the different vertical levels. So for example we can use green for mini, silver for plus and gold for those days we accomplish our elite target. Here's a quote from the book which I though captures the essence of the system.
This is a special system, because the three distinct goal sizes have their own motivational allure. When you’re having a down day, you’re going to climb into the arms of attainability. When you’re frustrated with mediocrity, you’re going to respond by fighting hard for a large and valuable win. When you’re somewhere in between, you’re going to take the middle ground and be thankful the option is there.
I'm hoping to have some success in establishing some new habits in my life with this system. Currently I do have some momentum because I have a regular exercise regimen, cook healthy meals everyday, and play my guitar everyday. These things all bring me immense energy and satisfaction. Next on the list is a meditation and studying routine. I'm in the middle of reading Meditation for Beginners by Jack Kornfield and absolutely love it so far. It has me hyped to get started. As far as the studying I've been learning about options trading strategies. Tastytrade has some great content for beginners.
Anyways, thanks for sharing downwardsfromzero
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I wish you well on your habit journey!!