So I thought I'd bring this topic up for discussion. What do you guys make of vanity and fake people?
I aim for brutal honesty since their is so much ambiguity from sugar coating. So here goes...
I know of someone who is very "spiritual". Which means they take photos of themselves doing "spiritual" things and surrounds themselves in Hindu and Buddhist art. They are always going for photogenic shots of themselves. This particular person is attractive, and knows they are attractive. So they flaunt it at every possible moment. They also claim that they meditate, which to them, means sitting quietly for 5 minutes. They are deceiving themselves that they are spiritual. This person is essentially a hippy, but without knowing the meaning of what they surround themselves with. Always wearing hippy clothes and dreadlocked hair, because this person wants to be "unique". One can talk to a 9-5 dude in a business suit and find out that they are a very deep and philosophical person that hates their job and would much rather become a monk or something. What you wear means nothing, what you look like means nothing. Vanity is one of the vices of the ego, and is only a hindrance to enlightenment. In my books, a person ignorant in spirituality is better than one who fools themselves to think they're deep or spiritual, just because their material possessions originate from a deep and spiritual culture.
I feel sorry for this person. It's like being admitted to med school, and thinking you're already a doctor. You still need to pass the exams to be a doctor. Spiritual and philosophical people dive into the deep end. Those who engage only in small and trivial talk wade in the shallow end. This particular person is walking around the deep end, but not diving in.
Why do people do this? Why do people want attention so bad, that they are willing to be fake for it? Are they trying to self-validate their existence in the only way they know how?
I aim for brutal honesty since their is so much ambiguity from sugar coating. So here goes...
I know of someone who is very "spiritual". Which means they take photos of themselves doing "spiritual" things and surrounds themselves in Hindu and Buddhist art. They are always going for photogenic shots of themselves. This particular person is attractive, and knows they are attractive. So they flaunt it at every possible moment. They also claim that they meditate, which to them, means sitting quietly for 5 minutes. They are deceiving themselves that they are spiritual. This person is essentially a hippy, but without knowing the meaning of what they surround themselves with. Always wearing hippy clothes and dreadlocked hair, because this person wants to be "unique". One can talk to a 9-5 dude in a business suit and find out that they are a very deep and philosophical person that hates their job and would much rather become a monk or something. What you wear means nothing, what you look like means nothing. Vanity is one of the vices of the ego, and is only a hindrance to enlightenment. In my books, a person ignorant in spirituality is better than one who fools themselves to think they're deep or spiritual, just because their material possessions originate from a deep and spiritual culture.
I feel sorry for this person. It's like being admitted to med school, and thinking you're already a doctor. You still need to pass the exams to be a doctor. Spiritual and philosophical people dive into the deep end. Those who engage only in small and trivial talk wade in the shallow end. This particular person is walking around the deep end, but not diving in.
Why do people do this? Why do people want attention so bad, that they are willing to be fake for it? Are they trying to self-validate their existence in the only way they know how?