Even though I know the bulk of you will pooh-pooh my experience, I feel the burning need to talk about it because it's something I think about nearly every day. I've talked about what I've seen with both my wife and my buddies, but there's only so much they can say. I'm hoping to find another person out there who has seen something similar because it's bothersome – like a splinter or something caught in your throat or your eye.
March 14?, 1997
I'm a college kid, living with my parents in the front, second floor bedroom of the house. I have a nice view of a majestic bridge and the borough to the north. A common sight are passenger jets flying above the river and over the bridge, making their approach to the airport about 5km away.
One night, I come into my room and out the window see a lit-up craft hovering above the river, just to the west of the bridge. (Measuring the distance on a map shows a distance of about 1km from my viewpoint.) I think nothing of it, and figure it's just a helicopter videoing some kind of traffic accident on the bridge (which happens from time to time). I look out of the second window, which has a better view of the bridge, and to my surprise, traffic was moving smoothly – red lights flowing in one direction, and white lights in the other. So I figure, "Well, they're probably taking some kind of establishing shot for a news program or something."
I take a long shower, then come back to my room. To my surprise, the helicopter is still there, at a slightly higher position... "Twenty-plus minutes is a long time for a helicopter to just hover. Doesn't that consume a lot of fuel?" I think to myself. Just then, a passenger jet passes a little above it... AND they're the same friggin' size!

"WTF is that‽" I say out-loud as I grab the hand-held Tasco telescope from my bookshelf.
I lean over my desk and steady my forearms on my old manual typewriter, and carefully adjust the focus. "That's not ah----"
The top row of windows were three equilateral triangles – the center one pointed upward, the ones to the left and right pointed downward. Below these were more windows of the same shape and configuration, which circled the entire craft. The windows glowed like the tail of a firefly – yellow/green. These windows allowed me to gauge the size and shape of the craft – a tear-drop shaped base that rose upward in an angular manor similar to an F-117 Nighthawk, except that it was double deckered and the same size as yet another passenger jet that was making its approach to the nearby airport. The craft also had a red light at the top.
"Dad – come see this! Quick – before it goes away!"
My dad comes in my room, slightly annoyed that I've disrupted his television watching downstairs. "OK – what is it?"
"Check this out..." I say as I hand him the telescope.
"Huh – that's interesting. Could be a government craft or something."
"Could be... it's the size of the planes flying into ___, though."
"Oh yeah – you're right."
"Where's your camera?"
"The Leica? It's broken. The shutter won't close. If you load film into it, you'll just ruin it."
"What about mom's camera?"
"I have no idea where she put it – unless you mean the one we use for parties..."
So there I am, trying to photograph a UFO out my bedroom window with a crappy 35mm point-and-click camera from the 90s. Being designed for close-ups, I captured nothing other than the night sky. My mom would rip me a new one when she developed the film a few weeks later.
Crestfallen, but not defeated, I sketched the craft, while looking at it, in a notebook. I watched it hover and turn back and forth on it's up/down axis as if it were scanning something for a good 50-60 minutes until my sense of awe and wonder was replaced by boredom, tedium, and sore shoulders. I wish I'd stayed with it to be able to note how exactly it left the area.
I told one of my friends at school about my experience, and she immediately dismissed me, saying "I think that's what happens when you smoke a lot of pot and hang out too much with Druggie Dave." I was quite hurt by that comment, since I really respected her, and never repeated my story again to anyone until recently. At that time, I was by no means a druggie – I'd only smoked weed once or twice, and rarely drank alcohol – in spite of my choice of company.
I don't really care if anyone believes me or throws a dismissive or stupid comment my way anymore. Get angry. Get judgmental. It doesn't change what I saw in detail for a full hour. I write here because I want to let those who've had such an experience know that they are not alone, and that this is indeed part of the human experience, in spite of what the nay-sayers say.
Seeing a UFO at a young age has alienated me from others... their perspectives and concerns... for most of my life. Human conflicts – both armed and verbal – politics, societal norms and expectations, all carry as much weight as a mote of dust from my point of view.
As to the craft's origin, I'm 50/50 on whether it's human or extraterrestrial. I find the prospect that the government has such craft in their arsenal as deeply concerning as ICBMs; not good at all. If it's ET – well then, this raises a whole host of questions....