Ashtray770 said:Imo the tone is quite forgiving. Dude grabbed a hammer to potentially bash a young women's face in, leading her to hide in a bathroom. That's pretty bad lol.
Yeah, it's kind of crazy situation, such that I'm glad nobody died that night. Maybe harsh tone is well deserved, if you assume that receiving party is ready for such criticism.
However, when you think about OP's potential current state of mind, I feel that they are suffering in this situation as well. It's hard to listen to advice in such state, especially if it's given from the perspective of anger and not love.
Would love to hear from OP, how are they and their friend doing.