The right time to take a psychedelic is an interesting conundrum to me.
On the one hand, one should wait until he/she feels ready. On the other, the right state of mind for a positive experience might be achieved by another route.
I have come back to being interested in psychedelics after a 20 year absence, and have a relevant case to share.
I got hold of some 5-meo while gathering my extraction bits and pieces. I tried a small amount of the 5-meo and I couldn't get past my fear, so clearly not ready. A few weeks later I decided I was in a fearless state of mind at the tail end of an mdma experience. So I took another hit of the 5-meo and had a wonderful experience. Now some of the fear is lost.
So in my case the 'right moment' did not come from achieving the right state of mind on my own, (which i'd struggle with, due to past experiences) but due to a fake state of mind induced by a horrible but effective courage powder.
Is this wrong?
Even the great Terence McKenna would go nowhere near any psychedelic without having copious amounts of cannabis to hand. He claimed the cannabis allowed him to 'navigate' the psychedelic spaces...
Until ive lost my fear from the past I have no shame about reinforcing my state of mind, however impure that approach may seem to others.