Aegle said:
soulfood said:
Aegle said:
eviljackalope said:
I would say that would make sense comming from a woman
This comment is unnecessary and unfounded.
Much Peace
I know this statement was probably meant as a joke, but I definately think there's some truth in this. Obviously people attitudes towards certain substances is going to vary an awful lot in different groups/areas and so forth, but most women I know have a much more objectional attitude towards the substances I use than my male friends.
I could never figure out if it was a lack of understanding or just a concern for my well being. But that's not to say I don't have male friends who seem to disapprove/misunderstand. It's just most of the time they seem to be female.
Soulfood
Gee i think that this is a great generalization on your part, I think that it could be just the type of females that you are exposed to.
Yes, I believe I hinted at that in my post and there's absolutely nothing wrong with my friends or their opinion on what I do. They're entitled to it and I recognise that. It's called respect
Aegle said:
It is really sad when people make and state these types of generalisations as all it does is make this type of thinking more prevalent which is not a positive thing. In many cultures around the world women are know as powerful shamans and healers and are greatly respected in those cultures. I think that this respect has been sadly eroded in the western culture and it is very unfortunate, women should be treasured more and given far more respect in the west.
Much Peace
Then it's a good job that I have other reasons to respect people than by what substances they use.
I think you've taken what I said in the wrong tone and for that, I apologise. I probably could have worded it more precisely.
Lets pick a scenario you may be able to relate what I'm talking about more accurately. When I was 19, I used to use a lot of MDMA. Looking back on the whole thing it was quite irresponsible, but I'd be frequently using what by my more educated standards of today, I would call an overdose. Losing time, thinking I'm somewhere else, doing things that I had no recollection of until someone told me what I had done five seconds later, stupid stuff.
Now the important thing to remember here is that all of my friends of the time came from the same part of england and had very similar backgrounds. My male friends would think what I was doing was hilarious or never gave it a second thought, whereas my female friends thought I was self-destructing, that I was going to do myself some permanent damage, that I was addicted... basically the sort of behaviour patterns people would usually associate with a heroine addict. Needless to say I wasn't being very cautious, but it was no way near that level seriousness. However I appreciated the level of concern and understood it because my female friends are much more warm and caring than my male friends which is a quality I like about them. I assume this to be true of most women.
That's just an extreme, to show how the two attitudes seem to differ in my experience, but even today with my nice, friendly, plant-teachers, I still feel the same vibe about them from many of my female friends compared to very few of my male friends. Also, I do have female friends who don't use psychedelics, but encourage my use of them because they work for me, their just in the minority.
Further more I find your over-simplifacation of my female friends disrespectful