addiction to solitude may lead to plant like behavior.. and thats ok

[ParticulateIce]

Hello nexians... or is it nexusists?

Much like life, this introduction will be, at best, an elegant stumble.

Im a plant person.. have grown a variety of psychotropic plants over the years.. over the past 4 or 5 years my cactus collection has been taking up most of the space available. I took up grafting, seedlings mostly, but had to halt any more seed purchases or adding anything to the collection.. its crazy how out of hand a simple plant collection can get..

Im not much of a social creature and Ive spent the past few years very disconnected from the world outside the garden.. so coming here is part of me attempting to relearn how to do basic humaning stuff (yes.. im way way out of sync with the world these days).. i need to socialize my self to some degree because im so deeply addicted to spending all of my time in solitude. So joining this forum, keeping with semi regular jogs at the park, and reconnecting with one local friend is the start of me attempting to rejoin the world around me. Baby steps!

I cannot at all exist in harmony with those popular social media platforms and in general it can be difficult for me to find an appropriate outlet to join discussions most of the time.. but i do like the nexus and its inhabitants.. Theres also no doubt i have plenty of things to share here with all of you beautiful strangers. And vice versa...
so until that time comes...

 

[CatPharm]

Welcome

 

[ParticulateIce]

thank you

 

[neb]

I like your style!

Welcome!

 

[Cazman043]

Welcome! Solitude from a chaotic world can be very much needed time as an introvert so as to become sane again. Reconditioning the mind tends to take a bit of time away from the structure which so ingrained it within us. But don't forget to check in every now and again, many studies shine light on the fact we are social creatures, needing social engagement for our own wellbeing and longevity!

With love and support with taking those baby steps, we're here for you.

 

[Jees]

Hello ParticulateIce,

Many people would like to be more withdrawn from the hectic chaos, how much of a choice they have is open to debate. I think it's an art of life to find a suitable equilibrium.

Welcome :thumb_up:

 

[gaspah]

I solitude very much, I have my own persuits in life which can be rather demanding and sometimes I lose track of the outside world. However, I'm always willing to make time for family and good people, I don't care if you're a plant, as long as you treat people with decency then you're my kind of person. I'm perfectly fine with the whirlwinds too though as I can connect with just about anybody, which is apparent if you knew the eclectic assortment of friends I have. It's never a wise decision to dismiss anybody on face value, every person is a new opportunity. However, my love of solitute and private study and various projects does result in being me being quite discerning of who exactly hangs around. So if you're constantly the centre of personal dramas or group politics and particularly if your vindictive or treat others poorly, kindly exit stage left. However, even if you're a plant, it's important to maintain a connection with the outside world, there's always someone who could use your kind words, understanding, advices or just simply your ear. So make sure you go out and water them. Also, those people who are willing to make time to be your friend when you have no others tend to be the best kinds of people and worth keepin as friends. So make sure you go out and make some memories with that one local friend you have, odds are they need your friendship just as much as you need to need to rejoin the world.

also, if finding an appropriate outlet outlet to join discussions on any of the major platforms, then they're probably not discussions woth having. Plus, you're not alone, I feel most large media platforms are a barren wasteland for worthwhile discussions, hiveminds tend to do little more than just buzz and re-buzz other buzzes and agrilly buzz if your buzz sounds slightly different.

Incedentally, just approximately how many plants are in your garden now, both psychotropic and if there are any otherwise? What's inspired you to grow so many? Or is this just your necessary fuel for solitude?