Nathanial.Dread said:
I'm sure there are people of color all over the united states who would LOVE to put race behind us, but can't because we live in a society that cares deeply about race. We can't put race behind us until police stop shooting black people and The State stops using their bodies to make a profit on incarceration.
None of us WANT to focus on identity politics, but we have to because in our culture, identity matters. As much as I would love to say 'gender is a fiction, let's all just throw it out,' I can't when my trans friends are many times more likely to be murdered just for having the gall to wear a dress and a beard at the same time.
So, this is where we are now. I am observing the same incidents and all I can do, is to face them and most important, decide how to deal with them, now. What do I want to make out of it. How to go on from here?
1)
Face and accept that it seems to be like this, right at this moment. Neglection and defense are always a sign that I have not found a way to cope with it, that I can not integrate it right now in my system (because I-ego feel/s offended), that I close myself for/ don't understand the information behind it.
2)
"Work" it through, what is it? Is this behaviour/mental concept which I produce
logical/rational and is it
functional, that means, does it improve our all-living-quality in life? How do I want to deal with it from now? How do I reproduce myself in the now? What am I giving in and where does my behaviour lead to? I decide for myself and create new patterns
3) I am the change and
enhance the new patterns I have developed
See the
"A matter of focus" thread.
All I can control is my own behaviour (thinking is also a behaviour), my own physiological and psychological reproduction in every moment. "Society" will follow, we are all humans, we all correspond in love, we want to feel "good", we want to love and be loved. It is an evolutionary step to experience unconditional love as greatest pleasure/force in a human experience. Because we all want to feel happy, we un-consciously check everyone around us, to improve the resoltuion of our human experiences. When I see someone who appears happy and content, I check to find out what this human is making different than I do, to eventually learn from her/him and "improve" myself.
Thus, all I have to/can do is to consciously reproduce myself, oriented on my values. It seems that the wheels of the mills turn "slowly", but this is evolution on a psychological/spiritual level.
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