Hello all,
Master Of Plants has been suspended for a long time.
The last time I decided to suspend a user for a long time this resulted in some flak going my way. So this time I decided to be all open about it and tell you the story behind a suspension.
When Master Of Plants came to this board he quickly got the attention of the mods by his behavior: many incoherent posts with no direction. In the beginning I thought it was entertaining to read but after a while it became more and more the same all off the time. When his posts got more attention from other members his posts became bolder, sometimes even insulting to other people...
The road to suspension
He was warned for this behavior and was asked not to do it again. After this PM he went on to do the same thing again. This resulted in his first suspension for two days.
After these two days he came back and showed no real change in behavior, again some PM's were exchanged and after a few days he was suspended again, this time for two weeks...
Two weeks passed and I hoped he had learned from his suspension, I already send him a PM why he was suspended, how he should adapt his behavior and a warning included that if he didn't change he would be suspended for a long time.
Later he PM-ed me with the question what exact behavior was bad, I gave him these reasons (again):
* No respect to other people
* Ironic 'jokes'
* One liner posts
* Incoherent posts
* Flooding the forum
He returned a PM in which he disagrees with the accusations. I asked him to explain why he disagrees with me and I got a return PM that showed me some information that tipped the balance to suspend him for a long time.
To quote MOP: "I am a trickster, a ioculator. This is why I must do, even with the use of irony, do the jokes."
This gave me the idea that he is either one of these two possibilities: 1. A troll or 2. A person in mental distress.
For the troll I think it's clear why they shouldn't be on the DMT-Nexus. A person in mental distress however is something else. Some people with mental distress can really be helped by this community, there is even a special section for this. A person in mental distress however must have some motivation to be helped or else you can't help them. If there is no progress or even a decline I think it's time to cut the lines.
I'm afraid MOP is a person with no progress at all and even a decline. It might be better for him to stay away from the internet at all.
In the end I'm still having a bit of doubt with his suspension since it might be we could help him in some other way to seek help (if he really isn't a troll and needs help). I hope I did the right thing.
Kind regards,
The Traveler
Master Of Plants has been suspended for a long time.
The last time I decided to suspend a user for a long time this resulted in some flak going my way. So this time I decided to be all open about it and tell you the story behind a suspension.
When Master Of Plants came to this board he quickly got the attention of the mods by his behavior: many incoherent posts with no direction. In the beginning I thought it was entertaining to read but after a while it became more and more the same all off the time. When his posts got more attention from other members his posts became bolder, sometimes even insulting to other people...
The road to suspension
He was warned for this behavior and was asked not to do it again. After this PM he went on to do the same thing again. This resulted in his first suspension for two days.
After these two days he came back and showed no real change in behavior, again some PM's were exchanged and after a few days he was suspended again, this time for two weeks...
Two weeks passed and I hoped he had learned from his suspension, I already send him a PM why he was suspended, how he should adapt his behavior and a warning included that if he didn't change he would be suspended for a long time.
Later he PM-ed me with the question what exact behavior was bad, I gave him these reasons (again):
* No respect to other people
* Ironic 'jokes'
* One liner posts
* Incoherent posts
* Flooding the forum
He returned a PM in which he disagrees with the accusations. I asked him to explain why he disagrees with me and I got a return PM that showed me some information that tipped the balance to suspend him for a long time.
To quote MOP: "I am a trickster, a ioculator. This is why I must do, even with the use of irony, do the jokes."
This gave me the idea that he is either one of these two possibilities: 1. A troll or 2. A person in mental distress.
For the troll I think it's clear why they shouldn't be on the DMT-Nexus. A person in mental distress however is something else. Some people with mental distress can really be helped by this community, there is even a special section for this. A person in mental distress however must have some motivation to be helped or else you can't help them. If there is no progress or even a decline I think it's time to cut the lines.
I'm afraid MOP is a person with no progress at all and even a decline. It might be better for him to stay away from the internet at all.
In the end I'm still having a bit of doubt with his suspension since it might be we could help him in some other way to seek help (if he really isn't a troll and needs help). I hope I did the right thing.
Kind regards,
The Traveler
