One with all, or solitude?

[Lotus Petals]

When you take DMT, (you personally) do you feel a oneness with all, total solitude, both, or something else?

I ask because my husband is hesitant to experiment. He tells me that in his trips he feels complete solitude and has no idea what the oneness with all is about. Don't get me wrong, he is not a shallow or unthinking person, as some may be led to believe by this. Its always made me wonder. Total disconnection with humanity. I cant relate at all. And I wonder if he is maybe going a step above. He has never had DMT. And I wonder where it may take him. Same place as everyone else I would think. He is a strong person so I don't believe it would be horrible. But I worry. Maybe his feeling of solitude was closer to a DMT experience?? I want this experience together. But...I don't know.

 

[Spiritofspice]

I wouldn't worry everybody's experience is different.
What substances has he taken before.
Maybe he is keeping some things to him self and doesn't want to share.
Trips can be deeply personal.

Does he want to try it?
I would just let him explore it on his own if he prefers and after a couple of launches he might indulge with you.
I will vape in company of others but I prefer to do aya by myself.
Give him a lesson and let him blow reality to pieces by himself.
Trust the spice he will get shown what he needs to see under the influence.

Don't give people any expectations or ideas on what will happen just tell him it wil be intense.
Then afterwards you can talk about the experience together.

 

[cubeananda]

Here's a quote from Rilke on the matter.

"I hold this to be the highest task for a bond between two people: that each protects the solitude of the other."


For me personally I feel a whole mixed bag of things, and I can't personally call any of them oneness just because that's not what i think it is. Harmalas definitely bring me to a state of deep solitude.