I used to live in a city, and making a ceremony there was never optimal. No matter my efforts, the city's vibe and noise pollution were always present.
My last experience there, neighbors started a fight behind the wall, and I
became a part of the argument. At some point, I even thought that they were arguing about me and what to do - call the police or deal with me themselves. You get the idea. It was a hard journey of sublime misery with a clear message to get away from a dysfunctional living situation. On the other hand, I had the most mystical experience of my life alone in a flat. That spot was on the edge of the city, a five-minute walk from a forest. So go figure...
Now I live in a semi-rural village near a lake. I can see the forest from my window. The only downside is that the railroad is quite near, and the war in Europe has contributed to a lot of traffic. I can see firsthand what they make and send from my porch. Locals try to be polite and don't run many trains on weekends. So that's my only time slot for any medicine work. It's not ideal, but it works. Strangely enough, during my deepest journeys, there was no noise at all - all the traffic and the noise simply died out. I don't know how this works. It's like some higher power orchestrates these things. It only happened a couple of times (usually on a full moon), but it always leaves me speechless. I know where I live and what to expect. When things don't go according to the usual scheme, it's quite obvious.
Set and setting are very personal. You start with general advice and common sense. Later, just tweak it to your own preferences. I like to be alone and undisturbed. Set a small altar as a focal point of your ceremony, and play some appropriate music or make some music yourself. I feel like it's a big part of a well-conducted ceremony. Working with silence is much more advanced and implies that you have a lot of experience. Given some time and confidence in your ability to work with plants, you'll find a style that suits you the best. For the last two years, I've sung kirtan (chants) in my ceremonies. This was totally brought in by the plants. One day I got an idea to download a long kirtan track for my playlist. In the next ceremony, the idea to play that particular track just came to me, seemingly from nowhere. I was plainly not satisfied with anything else. Singing along produced so much
magic that I've been a believer ever since.
You can always ask some specific questions here on Nexus.
There are a lot of approaches, and most likely someone would be able to give you advice.
Have a safe journey
