I'll make it simple....you change YOURSELF....the DMT leads you to all those good, juicy positive ideas that will manifest the change in your life...all of a sudden, you are interested in Nature, reading and knowledge, and different cultures as well as spiritual practices...all of a sudden, there is a God (if you were an atheist), and if you weren't an atheist, you realize that YOU are God...This is what they call Ego Death...release from form and a return to The Self...You don't find DMT, DMT finds you...if you have been offered DMT, I'd take it as a sign, and delve into it...As Mr. Mkenna said, "The notion of a person going through their entire life without having experienced the psychedelic state of being makes me as edgy as the notion of going through life without ever having a sexual experience...It means you did not roll up your sleeves and play in the game...you were a spectator"