I sometimes wonder if maybe in modern society, we're focussed too much on who we are, instead of on what we do. It seems to me that many people want to be a succesfull person, but often they don't realy want to actually do something that is succesfull. Or at least it seems that their desire to be succesfull, is greater than their desire to do something succesfull. For instance, they want to be president of the united states, but they don't realy want to do the things a president is supposed to do.
When it comes to spirituality, there's a simmilar issue going on. Many people want to be enlighted, and they sometimes hope that psychedelics can aid in achieving that goal. But often people do seem to believe that enlightenment is something you can simply achieve, and once you got there, you no longer have to work at it. Once you have achieved enlightenment, you have become enlightened and you no longer need to achieve anything else. As if enlightenment is a permanent thing, as if it cannot fade.
But isn't that just a silly fantasy? Isn't life, except a great and wonderfull gift, an ongoing struggle as well? And isn't that the way it's supposed to be, actually?
Could this focus on being instead of on doing, be one of the reasons for all the sexual harrasment stuff that recently came to the surface in the whole metoo thing? Could it be that sometimes a person achieves something, and instead of thinking "i have partaken in a succesfull endevour", they think "i'm a succesfull person now", and therefore they believe they have a different kind of status from then on?
If you see succes, or enlightenment, as a status thing instead of looking at it as partaking in something or doing something, you may be more susceptible to believing that you deserve special privileges, or that other peoples lives have less value than yours.
When it comes to spirituality, there's a simmilar issue going on. Many people want to be enlighted, and they sometimes hope that psychedelics can aid in achieving that goal. But often people do seem to believe that enlightenment is something you can simply achieve, and once you got there, you no longer have to work at it. Once you have achieved enlightenment, you have become enlightened and you no longer need to achieve anything else. As if enlightenment is a permanent thing, as if it cannot fade.
But isn't that just a silly fantasy? Isn't life, except a great and wonderfull gift, an ongoing struggle as well? And isn't that the way it's supposed to be, actually?
Could this focus on being instead of on doing, be one of the reasons for all the sexual harrasment stuff that recently came to the surface in the whole metoo thing? Could it be that sometimes a person achieves something, and instead of thinking "i have partaken in a succesfull endevour", they think "i'm a succesfull person now", and therefore they believe they have a different kind of status from then on?
If you see succes, or enlightenment, as a status thing instead of looking at it as partaking in something or doing something, you may be more susceptible to believing that you deserve special privileges, or that other peoples lives have less value than yours.
so what are we asking? what is real ?