benzyme said:
fair enough..
if you feel you have something to contribute, please consider staying.
this is a very diverse community, and you will definitely find others who
observe kundalini-related topics.
I have nothing against this community and I'm sure there are many beautiful people here, but frankly I don't care anymore about playing games of who butt-lick the other more. There's no point for me on wearing the mask of the "politically correct" individual just for the sake of not hurting people's feelings just because they cannot stand someone that says something they can feel as challenging their knowledge.
Yes, I know, it hurts when someone tells you "you are wrong" on something. However it hurts much more to be really wrong and nobody telling you just for not making you feel challenged or offended. Maybe not your ego, but surely your research. As it is said: "mystery is the enemy of truth".
You see, in a forum as this that talks about matters that have to do with internal states it is very very easy to think you are doing the greatest things when you are doing nothing if nobody ever challenges what they think is correct and confront their experiences because it is not allowed. Your mind is the greatest obstacle to your advancement because your mind always want to make you feel the "special" one, the great guy, the one that is never wrong and can never err and that everything you do is perfectly fine and correct. With only your mind as a test of your advancement (as it happens with psychedelics) it is very easy to become someone that thinks him/herself the reincarnation of God sprouting nonsense if you never challenge your point of views and experiences with others.
I've seen it happen so many times in these years, and it has happened to me personally when I just began practicing certain things. The usual personal shield for feeling challenged by other experiences is this: "everything is relative and what it happens to you is not said will happen to me, so if you say that I'm wrong you are just wanting to impose your beliefs upon me". A shame that we humans are made in a certain way and some experiences are the same for everybody. The external experience can vary, but the structure is usually always the same. If it isn't it is because you are doing something incorrect, it is not because you are someone "special" or outside the norm (usually always in better, who knows why, isn't it?) or because you think it is just a matter of different "beliefs"; it is not so. If for example you arise Kundalini to the Shashara and in doing so you don't obtain the so-called "Siddhis", it is not because you are different than you didn't obtain them, it is just that you didn't arise Kundalini properly, because everybody that does will obtain them, invariably. In all disciplines (be it mysticism or magic) there are well defined steps to test your progress and there is a reason why it is so, so pretending that those steps serves nothing because everyone is different is the usual mind trick.
By doing certain things certain things will happen, invariably, and if someone that has experienced that same state tells you that "you are wrong" in something there's nothing to be offended or challenged about it. If your knowledge and practice is correct and you confront openly what the other is saying both of you would greatly benefit from this, no matter who is right. But if you never confront your experience and never want to be "challenged" and always remain closed in your certainties (or presumed so) because you think that "everything is relative", you will never know if you do something wrong.
There's nothing wrong on confronting one another till there's reciprocal respect. If you don't challenge another point of view just so you don't hurt his feelings you are not doing him/her a favor, all the contrary.
I personally wanted to join because I wanted to advise people to don't believe a specific report of a guy here, because it can be dangerous to do so (since it is all faked up). If a beginner would try something like that believing it is true then s/he could encounter problems. But now I see that even if I can make and join I could never be able to do so for the policy of this site that doesn't admit you challenging other experiences because this is "judging" or "offending" them. For me it makes no sense. What it is worse in this case, challenging a false and dangerous report or play the "poliitically correct guy" and even putting people in danger (I personally saw in that thread young people replying very enthusiastically at that report and even considering a sort of masterpiece; this bothers me to no end).
You can also say: "what the hell can you care, make them do what they want". You can be right, but if I have the possibility of sharing what I know and help others why I should not do so? If then I cannot, so be it.
Anyway, my rant is finished. I'm sorry for wasting the time of this community and best of luck for your future.