DeMenTed said:Sorry tango but your post just sounds like an advert for valium. Oh i'm scared and benzo's are the answer kinda thing.
I like the phrase, what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. Imagine how amazing you would feel if you overcame your fears without meds.
My post is no more an advert for benzos than this entire forum is an advert to becoming a junkie (which it may certainly seem to be the case if a person with little knowledge about psychedelics somehow ended up on this site). All I did was share my experience, without any claim that it's a cure all approach and everyone should do it. And it's ok to come and say 'hey, i did the same thing and it didn't work for me'. But to claim that no one should ever try that based solely on your personal experience or on something you heard from an uncle who once visited for Xmas is certainly not a valid argument.
Also, what's up with making assumptions about people we don't know? I simply said that the benzo worked for me when I needed it and the side effects were worth it. How does that imply that I rely exclusively on a pill and I'm on a path to addiction, no less?!
The fat kid who pops a valium with his breakfast, lunch and dinner doughnut -let's set him right before it's too late, that kind of thing. Well, when someone with asthma can run 7-8 miles and be fine, practice vinyasa at 105f and be fine, but then loses it under certain situations, maybe we should give that person the benefit of the doubt.
Demented, your phrase has its place in the book of nonsensical, overused, feel-good catch-phrases, right next to 'thinking outside the box'. How about 'what doesn't kill you on the spot may eventually kill you down the road'? That makes a lot more sense when talking about the human psyche. It also applies to both the benzos and the conditions they target.
Which is exactly the point here. There are often two opposing points of view that can be equally valid, depending on circumstances. Exactly what Joedirt and DayTripper said. Also Notwhatyouknow -good to hear from someone who's been there, done that. It's all about control, about finding that balance, like in a yoga pose, where you want to put just enough effort. And it's a dynamic equilibrium. Whether something will work for someone depends on a myriad of factors.
I once found myself in a big hole and will be forever grateful to the doc who skipped the bs and rxed uppers. Looking back, I don't know how I'd have managed without those few hours of feeling ok that the meds provided. So everyone, let's not lose common sense in an anti-pharma crusade.