GOD said:
When a person wants to join they should be informed that they are on a waiting list and that in the mean time they should read the wiki , the FAQ and the atitude page . They should also be given a list of do's and donts . A list that explains what is ment by research . And be informed of the measures that can and will be ordered against offenders .
They should be told that they are on a probation time and that they need to spend some time thinking about how the site works and what the members expect . They should also be told that they should not be hurt . suprised or take it to seriously if someone moans , shoots or shouts at them .
After that its a job for the comunity and the mods . The members need to be given clear instructions of do's and donts with new members . That they are not there to judge and condem they should try to help .
This is exactly how its done, all new members get a pm explaining what they have to do and the main links such as FAQ, attitude page, etc. They stay in 'probation period' until they are democratically voted in or the mods decide they are ready.
GOD said:
IF someone steps out of line or says something factual that others dont know they shouldnt be imediately banned. Still after how many weeks noone has apologised to me for the shit stom that was thrown at me
You clearly don't see what goes on behind the curtains, we do a LOT of mediation and talk to people, banning is just the last resource. That's the ungrateful part of being a moderator, people only see a small part of the work.
I don't want to turn this discussion about you, but first of all you werent banned, secondly your posting has often been problematic, some time ago you made several unsafe comments (and factually wrong) like saying meth is harmless, or also when talking about huge oral cannabis doses as if it has any bearing on what others should do, and you have often acted in ways that people felt as judgemental or combative. We received
several pms from people complaining about your posts. So instead of pointing fingers, take a good look at yourself first.
GOD said:
2 - The wiki needs fixing
Why don't you register in the wiki and fix it yourself? Contribute instead of expecting others to do so.
With posesions comes responsibility . That means that when someone makes a forum and they want to last long and be respected they have to take the whole packet and not just the raisons . The work as well and not just the fun .
Easy for you to say heh?
How many hours (days, months, years) do you think mods have invested in trying to help this place, solving troubles, coming up with novel solutions, mediating between discussions and problems, fixing threads, organizing the wiki, writting the FAQ and other sections etc etc.? How many hours have mods and others spent doing the experiments and sharing the info which you reap benefit of, for no personal gain at all? How many thousands of bucks do you think Trav invested from his own money in this place without charging a cent from you and other members? To say its not "just the fun" is so off, it's not even funny.