I'd consider myself addicted, which I probably wouldn't have a year ago.
I didn't try it until after high school, when I was 18. I was straight-lace, didn't smoke nicotine or drink alcohol either. Since then I've smoked and drank socially but never got addicted to nicotine or alcohol. My first dozen or so highs were on a classmate's volcano. He was using it for medical purposes, to help with a stomach issue. I think the image of vaporizing it out of a 'medical device' for 'medical patients' helped me not see it as an addictive drug. I bought my own volcano eventually and hardly ever smoked it except out of friend's methods.
I was addicted to World of Warcraft from like, 15-22. So maybe there is something to cannabis synergizing with other addictions. The summer between high school and college I was eventually vaping with my medical friend almost daily and scheming to start a business. I was making a few hundred dollars per mo. selling WoW gold at the time, so we kind of leaned in that direction. I got deeply committed to gaming and vaping and quickly dropped out of college to move in with my WoW girlfriend across the country. I wasn't with my medical friend anymore so I was sober for about a year, but after that relationship didn't work out I moved back, got my own volcano, and been vaping ever since.
Once you have an expensive desktop vaporizer it's hard not to indulge. And it really marks the first step in a lifestyle path. For a decade I've been framing my life to make room for cannabis. I rented a house with 4 of my stoner friends, so it was constantly present and it was an awesome year of goofing off, getting stoned, gaming, dropping out of college again. I did my first DMT extractions and was just starting to get my feet wet in psychedelics. This was in 2012 and I was waking up to the status-quo, getting swept up into new-age spiritual practices, banking on Terrence's timewave zero prediction that the world was going to dramatically change by the end of the year.
I was isolating from my friends, on my computer a lot, my employment wasn't stable. Being high makes it easy to ignore things though. When I ran out I would pinch from my roommates bags while they were gone. I still feel guilty about it. Everyone split apart after that year lease, I moved back home and tensions were high with my family since I was just gaming, vaping and not working. Gaming was probably the bigger problem honestly. After I started to let that go it was easier to get a job and move in with some other stoner friends.
This is becoming a long autobiography lol, sorry. Long story short, in the past decade I've taken steps, sometimes intentionally sometimes subconsciously, to maintain a constant relationship with cannabis. I live alone so there's no conflict or secondary accountability. I grew the plant for several years and sold it for longer, I haven't been dry in years. The desktop vaporizer delivering unparalleled highs without lingering odors. Jobs that can be done while high.
It stunts my social skills though, I think more than average for some people. I get really quiet and don't express myself clearly or as often, probably related to the anxiety/paranoia and confusion/memory fog. It's great when I'm alone though, so I'm alone more and more frequently. But it's unnecessary to use it as often as I do, like right now I have an hour of downtime before I have to do some stuff. There's plenty of chores I could be doing, but that feels icky, I'd rather vape a bit and write a long ass post. I notice writing is another addiction for me, maybe because I've put myself in a situation where I crave interaction. Sometimes I write something, read it back and it's just like... why am I spending time on this just to get a like or two.
I think it would be best used like any other psychedelic, once per week at most, or for special occasions. But I've setup my life where it's so accessible, excusable that it's not easy to control my use. Dinner is an occasion, why not breakfast, or anything and everything. And it's the foundation of my interest in psychedelics which is a big part of my identity presently, so it's hard for me to admit its faults.